so jonquil and jess got into this big heated argument

it boils down to this

i caught jonquil cheating on me
(for lack of a better word)

she made a blog post telling about how she felt
she made it “friends only”
no big deal…
within ten minutes it was deleted

in that ten minute period jess read it

and somehow or another told dj, and heather about it

again… not so much of a big deal

i would have told dj and heather anyway, i just kind of wanted to sort everything out in my head before i asked for advice

when i went into work heather asked me if i was pissed

me= “why would i be pissed?”
her= “because of jonquil and the internet thing”
me= “how do you know about that?”
her= “guess”
me= “no im not really”
up until that point i hadnt really thought about any of it…. i had put it out of my mind on purpose
when i am working… i am alone… all i have are my thoughts
this was the last thing i wanted on my mind. but there it was… large as life
i started crying…. i came home

i told jq what happened the next day
she got upset…
here is why

when jq first came here she had no friends
so i introduced her to jess
her and jess talked alot, everything was fine, until jq and i had a fight.
jess told dj everything jq had been saying
it was irritating because
#1 jq told jess to keep things private
#2 when jq gets upset she exaggerates
things were being passed from jess to dj… that were untrue
at least from what dj told me was said

this happened a few times

dj and i never had a problem with each other throughout this mess
at least i never had a problem with dj…. and he said he didnt have a problem with me.
things went on as normal

eventually it got to be more than he and i could control… so we decided it would be best if jess and jq didnt talk to each other anymore… we hatched a scheme to make it look like the idea was actually jq and jess’

it worked

peace was regained in the kingdom

until now

jess did the same thing

granted i dont expect jess to not tell her husband something
there are very few things i dont tell jonquil

in fact she knows everything… unless im told not to tell anyone.
trust and honesty is something that must be shared between two people for the relationship to work

jq sent her a message telling her she didnt appreciate jess telling dj and heather…

jq sent jess this
“You are not helping make things any better for either me nor George. I took that post down at George’s request because he wanted to keep this private. I put it up in the first place because I thought I could trust my friends with it. Obviously, I was wrong on that one. George had to come home early last night and he probably won’t be working tonight because he keeps getting crap about this.

This is our life. I would appreciate it if you would show some respect and maturity and let us decide who knows about this.”

an immature message? i dont think so…. but abit rude
what followed was a series of “fuck you, you’re stupid” messages between them both.

when i go into work tonight heather is all pissed at jonquil because of things she said to jess… which i cant find anywhere, in any of these messages.
but that dosent matter, heather is jess’ sister. she is supposed to take up for her sister.

but she assured me this would be the end of it
jess would drop it, if jq would drop it

that turned out to be a lie

but a good one

jess brought me into all of this
an issue that centered around jq and i…. but the problem had nothing to do with me…. i was an innocent bystander
until now.

jess sent jq a very hatefull email about how dj jess and heather were only our friends, only hung out with us to “be nice to us” no one else likes us because we create drama for everyone

you see

jess lives in this fantasy world i like to call “moronville”

in moronville jq and i only have 5 or 6 friends
the only time we do anything with anyone….. is when we do it with them
you see, we live our lives online, we blog because we have no one else to talk to.

please… spare me

if the only people i had, who cared about me were the people jess is referring to i would have hung myself by my shoestrings long ago.

so jess, dj and heather dont want to be our friends anymore…
oh dear lord whatever am i going to do for the two hours, one night, every three months that i hung out with them

i care for dj
he has been a very good friend over the years
but if an issue as small as this, that has absolutly nothing to do with either of us could destroy that friendship
then it wasnt as strong as i thought it was
in essence it was to weak for me to even care

did jess think she would get a rise out of me by bringing me in this?
did she think she would cause more problems with jq and i?
she was wrong
all she got is a listing on my tags
jess(1)

jess keeps saying in every one of her messages that “jq and i need to tell her whatever we have to say to her face”
she wants us to be honest… face to face
and she tells us this…. through emails
dear jess, they do have telephones in moronville