I could use some cheetos

OK kid, Here’s the deal It’s been a few months since your mother and I split up. Since then you and I have moved to Florida, and bounced around between my mothers house… my fathers house… and johns house. Life has been rough, yet rewarding. You have met new friends, and had experiences you wouldn’t have had if we had stayed in South Carolina. So far I haven’t regretted the move in the slightest. So… Here is where I need to update you a little bit. About a month ago i had to go back to South Carolina to solve a problem your mother was having with a friend of hers… During that time i learned that shortly after we left your mother started seeing the man she cheated on me with, again. they built a quasi-relationship, and then she broke up with him… for reasons im sure you will hear about later on… if you ask that is. Your mother and i started talking… like humans… like adults… something we hadn’t done in a very long time. We laid our issues out on the table and solved a lot of the problems we had been having for the past few years. Most of those problems had to do with us lying to each other. I had been lying about how i found out your mother cheated on me… and she had been lying about various aspects of their relationship. We both came clean… We told each other the full truth, and in the process became friends again. Knowing that most issues were resolved i felt comfortable coming back...

In the end.

Dear Jason, Today my greatest fears have come true. Today your mother and i split up. This hurts me in a way that i have never been hurt before…. i am in so much pain, so I may ramble a bit, and this letter may be hard to understand at times but i am going to try and explain what has happened these last few months. In October of last year i found out your mother had been having an affair with her old boss. the affair lasted a month after i found out… with your mother repeatedly assuring me that it was over. In November we sent you to stay with your grandmother in Florida, to sort of… separate you from the hostility in the house. Then shortly after you left I found out she was still seeing hr old boss. I found out at 3am… and by 3:30 i was in my truck on my way to Florida to be with you. I spent about 4 days in Florida… the day after your mothers birthday she told me that she had made a mistake, she said that she wanted us to work things out… she wanted me to come home. so I did. It;s important that you know something… before i found out your mother had been cheating, we had never had a fight. Not one argument… things were peachy. once i got home the fighting began, we had some couples counseling… and that seemed to help for awhile, but deep down i had a lingering feeling that she was still seeing someone. There were some odd...
The start of something beautiful.

The start of something beautiful.

her= sorry i dont have any pics up yet, but i’d love to chat sometime me= sure… id love to chat you do know however that ****** warns people about users who have no photos “No picture found. Be suspicious.” :P also when there is no picture people tend to assume the worst… i dont however… because it really makes no diffrence to me. her= You can see pics of me on myspace www.myspace.com/****** the only pics of me on there are from my wedding and thats why i felt they would be inappropriate for a dating site. my profile is private so you’ll have to send a friend request. i log in everyday so i’ll be sure to approve you. me= so i have to ask… why is a gorgeous married woman on *****? her= I left my husband 2 months ago because he’s…alot of things. Made a rash decision to marry him. Biggest mistake of my life. I want to meet someone who can treat me right. her= I actually live in Lavonia right now. I only lived in Easley while I was with my husband. I am between jobs right now, when I left Easley it made the commute impossible. I hated to give up the damn good money though. I was a sales manager for the biggest Aaron’s store in the entire company. Very demanding. I interviewed last week at a title loan company in toccoa. I should be hearing from them monday. So you left out the part about the other place you worked..whats up with that? Come on you can tell me. And...
God lives in my closet, he protects my data

God lives in my closet, he protects my data

the past few weeks have been kind of stressful. due to the weather and unemployment rate in the city there hasn’t been much work for my company to do… which means a little more downtime than i am used to. its ok though, we can afford for me to take a little off time. i have been finding little projects to keep me busy, and ensure that i don’t become permanently attached to my computer chair. in the past few weeks i have: #1 Restocked and organized the tool shed #2 Replaced all broken tools #3 Reorganized the attic #4 Setup and installed the mobile dyno in the eclipse… with a mounting bracket. #5 Setup a wireless N+ network with 2 desktops 2 laptops and one JesusPod. #6 Setup a fully featured file server (appropriately named God) with a stand alone firewall and VoIP server. #7 replaced the vacuum modulator in the comet… cleaned the card and fuel system. fixed the braked and fuel tank. # 8 I also learned how to bake Italian twist bread!!!! # 9 I have also been working on an Image Gallery and on and on and on. One good thing about having this time off is that i have finally been able to adjust to, and get used to being a dad. i can finally say that i enjoy every minute of it… My mother took Jason and Melissa to have pictures taken a few weeks back, and we have finally gotten them all back. i can honestly say the past few weeks have been educational and relaxing… but if work keeps going...

The Truth

Dear Kid, Congratulations, you are now four days old. let me tell you how you came into this world. on Dec 5th at about 9pm your mother started having contractions… they were around 5 minutes apart… and didn’t hurt very badly, so she decided to sleep them off and see how things were the next morning. you weren’t due until Dec. 26th so we weren’t worried to much… we figured she was having braxton hicks contractions, and that everything would have stopped by the morning… they didn’t. so on the morning of the 6th we headed to the hospital. after the doctors checked your mother out they decided that it would be better for her to labor at home for awhile… so they sent us away with some pain meds and told us to come back if things got worst. well… things eventually got worst. about 9pm we headed back to the hospital. your mothers contractions were happening so fast, it seemed that a new one would start before the last was over. the doctors gave your mother an epidural and told her to get a little rest… they said that you wouldn’t be coming until early the next morning… they said that they would be back around 2 to check her cervix and see how much longer it would be. the nurse came back at 12:30, check your mother, found out she was at 9cm and her water had broke. you were coming sooner than we thought. i ran outside to make all of the phone calls… my mother and father, melissas mother, i sent text messages to...

the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Dear Kid, Congratulations, you are now four days old. let me tell you how you came into this world. on Dec 5th at about 9pm your mother started having contractions… they were around 5 minutes apart… and didnt hurt very badly, so she decided to sleep them off and see how things were the next morning. you werent due until Dec. 26th so we werent worried to much… we figured she was having braxton hicks contractions, and that everything would have stopped by the morning… they didnt. so on the morning of the 6th we headed to the hospital. after the doctors checked your mother out they decided that it would be better for her to labor at home for awhile… so they sent us away with some pain meds and told us to come back if things got worst. well… things eventually got worst. about 9pm we headed back to the hospital. your mothers contractions were happening so fast, it seemed that a new one would start before the last was over. the doctors gave your mother an epidural and told her to get alittle rest… they said that you wouldnt be coming until early the next morning… they said that they would be back around 2 to check her cervix and see how much longer it would be. the nurse came back at 12:30, check your mother, found out she was at 9cm and her water had broke. you were coming sooner than we thought. i ran outside to make all of the phone calls… my mother and father, melissas mother, i sent text messages to all...